| We all know what a wonderful thing friendship is! And | | | | Girls are the emotional beings, while guys are usually |
| we all have lots and lots of friends. As we grow, | | | | the ones who think rationally and logically and very |
| sometimes our friends change, sometimes they stay | | | | seldom bring their emotions in between (exceptions |
| with us forever and grow with us. It is a special bond | | | | are always there!). Girls bond at an emotional level |
| between two people who may not be related in any | | | | which is much deeper, much stronger than any bond |
| way by birth or relation. | | | | two guys may be able to form. Guys talk, share a lot |
| During the growing age, guys usually have lots of | | | | but rarely on a personal level and hardly ever on the |
| friends with whom they hang out with, while girls have | | | | emotional level. Girls, well what else do they do! Girls |
| a few with whom they usually stay indoors, locked in a | | | | talk about what they like, what they dislike, what they |
| room and chat non-stop for hours. Isn't that how you | | | | aspire for; dream to achieve, how they feel, who they |
| and I grew up ourselves? | | | | like, whom they don't like. That's sharing for girls, gossip |
| Girls as they grow up may lose touch, once they go to | | | | for guys... |
| college, get married and move to another city but still | | | | Another reason for closer bonding between girls is |
| the bond remains. If two girls who were friends in | | | | they don't mind sharing their fears and problems with |
| childhood were to meet again after 15 years they will | | | | their girl-friends, that makes them feel secure. But guys |
| have much more to talk about and won't need much | | | | never share their fears or problems unless they are |
| time to bond. Whereas guys are different (of course | | | | seeking advice, which is again something guys don't like |
| they are!). They may have grown up together, sharing | | | | to do. Girls just share problems to talk things out and |
| everything, learning all tricks together and knowing | | | | feel better in the process and not necessarily to seek |
| each other in & out, but if they get separated and | | | | solutions while guys approach is different, they talk |
| meet after 15 years, they will feel much more | | | | about problems only when they need solutions or help |
| awkward than girls and may or may not be able to | | | | from others. It's just the way they are, basic qualities |
| bond with each other well. This sounds familiar? Why | | | | and distinctions which make guys and girls so different |
| does that happen? | | | | yet so same... |