A Bond Called Friendship

We all know what a wonderful thing friendship is! AndGirls are the emotional beings, while guys are usually
we all have lots and lots of friends. As we grow,the ones who think rationally and logically and very
sometimes our friends change, sometimes they stayseldom bring their emotions in between (exceptions
with us forever and grow with us. It is a special bondare always there!). Girls bond at an emotional level
between two people who may not be related in anywhich is much deeper, much stronger than any bond
way by birth or relation.two guys may be able to form. Guys talk, share a lot
During the growing age, guys usually have lots ofbut rarely on a personal level and hardly ever on the
friends with whom they hang out with, while girls haveemotional level. Girls, well what else do they do! Girls
a few with whom they usually stay indoors, locked in atalk about what they like, what they dislike, what they
room and chat non-stop for hours. Isn't that how youaspire for; dream to achieve, how they feel, who they
and I grew up ourselves?like, whom they don't like. That's sharing for girls, gossip
Girls as they grow up may lose touch, once they go tofor guys...
college, get married and move to another city but stillAnother reason for closer bonding between girls is
the bond remains. If two girls who were friends inthey don't mind sharing their fears and problems with
childhood were to meet again after 15 years they willtheir girl-friends, that makes them feel secure. But guys
have much more to talk about and won't need muchnever share their fears or problems unless they are
time to bond. Whereas guys are different (of courseseeking advice, which is again something guys don't like
they are!). They may have grown up together, sharingto do. Girls just share problems to talk things out and
everything, learning all tricks together and knowingfeel better in the process and not necessarily to seek
each other in & out, but if they get separated andsolutions while guys approach is different, they talk
meet after 15 years, they will feel much moreabout problems only when they need solutions or help
awkward than girls and may or may not be able tofrom others. It's just the way they are, basic qualities
bond with each other well. This sounds familiar? Whyand distinctions which make guys and girls so different
does that happen?yet so same...