How Athletes Lose Composure

From my experience, many athletes spend too muchbecome anxious, scared, worried, and perform
energy worrying about things that they cannot controltentatively at best.
on the athletic field, court, or course. They wasteIf you want maximum composure, you must learn to
energy on irrelevant thoughts.train yourself to focus only on what is in your direct
Have you ever become distracted because you werecontrol in sports. You can divide the competitive arena
arguing with an official about a bad call? Even wheninto two areas:
you knew the official was not going to change his call,1. Things you can control: your thoughts, behaviors,
you gave energy to an *uncontrollable.*performance, and reactions in both practice and
The result: You became upset or frustrated, lost yourcompetition.
composure, and it affected you for several minutes to2. Things beyond your control: events or persons that
follow or even until the end of the game.you cannot influence during competition and which
If you focus on thoughts or events that are outside ofcause you to be distracted from your real mission.
your immediate control, you are distracted at the veryYour goal is to separate these two areas in your mind
least.and focus only on what you can control during
Athletes also get sidetracked easily when feelingperformance. You should ask yourself, "What do I
intimidated by the opposition. They focus too much onneed to focus on that will help me perform my best? "
an opponent's record or abilities. This can cause themThe other important question to ask yourself is,
to doubt or become anxious."Where should I direct my energy during my
You can classify all result-oriented thinking aboutperformance? "
outcomes into things that are beyond your directYour answer to these two questions will help you
control (in the present moment).improve your composure in sports. You will not get as
Athletes who focus too much on results or whatanxious or frustrated by giving energy to things that
others think, instead of the process, are likely toare beyond your control.