Love - The Unwritten Contract of God With Humanity

Recent news of the renewal of the "three yearproducing children. Imagine that in future, the countries
marriage contract" between the celebrity actors Tomof the declining population make a law to have at least
Cruise and Katie Holmes grabbed the internationalthree children in the family. If the couples fail, they may
headlines. Some of the key points of the negotiationshave to pay heavy damages, lose their jobs or even
areo An extra $500,000 for supporting Scientology, thejailed for life for failing to fulfill their national duty.
religion that Tom followso An increase in her annualSuch possibility can not be ruled out as State may
clothing allowance from $750,000 dollars to 2 millionhave limited means to give incentives but unlimited
dollarso A role in the next Mission: Impossible film.ocapacity to award punishment.
Katie reportedly received a 3 million dollar bonus fromA Mystery called Love
Tom when she gave birth to Suri. For more children,It may seem mysterious to the new generation why
Tom's "increased the additional offspring offer as anpeople of their older generation produced so many
incentive for Katie to get pregnant again". He'schildren without any "reason" and "benefits"? In fact,
apparently ready to pay up to $5.5 million for Katie toeven now, most countries of the developing world are
get pregnant, with a 2 million dollar bonus if shefacing the problem of overpopulation rather than
conceives by 2011. Katie, however, according todecline of population. In countries like India and China
reports, seems to wants at least 11 million dollars if shewhere the population have already crossed a billion,
gives birth and 5.5 million dollars if she 'tries and fails'.there are incentives for producing less number of
A marriage contract had never happened in countrieschildren and punishment for producing more children.
like India where marriage is considered to be too "holy"Yet millions suffer the wrath of State and pain of the
to be "breakable". Such a contract is a novelty evenbody to give birth to new lives.
for the West where the institution of marriage isIn fact, the people in most part of the world still
already on decline and more people prefer live-inconsider giving birth to babies as the greatest act of
relationship to marriage. A contractual marriage seemsemotional satisfaction. A woman without child always
to be the future of marriage.feels incomplete and unsatisfied. A child brings joy and
Yet there is nothing in this contract that must shocklove in the family and most people still consider children
any logical person. The amount of sacrifice a womanlike flowers which fills the family with love and
has to make to give birth to child is immense. She hashappiness. In fact, the parents who are not able to
to bear the child in her body for nine months andhave children would give their most valuation
suffer the deformation of body during the pregnancy.possession to bring a child in their lives. The desire of
The labour-pain for giving the birth of a child is thechild is so great that the Emperor Akbar of Mughal
greatest pain that a human being can suffer. Evendynasty travailed barefoot to miles in the hot desert to
after the birth, her responsibility is not over. She has tothe Dargah of Salim Chisti for getting the blessing of
feed the child her own milk and give lot of time forthe Sufi to have a son.
bringing the child up.Why do from the birth of civilization, woman had been
If Katie is demanding a suitable compensation for herebearing children and suffering immense pain to bring a
suffering, it seems to be perfectly justified.new life in this world?
A World based on ContractsWhy a man works day and night while suffering
In fact, the concept of contractual marriage should givenumerous humiliations in the job to bring food to his
new ideas to the new generation woman about theirfamily so that he can see joy and love in the eyes of
"rights" and demand similar compensation from theirhis wife and children?
husbands. Some woman may also realize how theyWho do many parents spend the prime of their lives
were cheated in the past as nothing was paid to themand fortune to bring joy in the life of their children?
as compensation for giving their body and child to theirAll of them get nothing in return except "love" which
husbands. It may not be surprising that after a fewmost find more than the compensation of their
decades, most women may demand suitablesuffering and hard work.
compensation for giving birth to a child and rearing up.Your Unwritten Contract with God
The only problem is that men would not be willing toIt is not a surprise that most people not only produce
pay up. After all what a man gets by having children?child without any expectation of any financial gain but
A child in the modern time means a great responsibility.perform a number of good deeds like bringing-up their
You have to feed the child, send them to school, andchildren, taking care of parents, taking care of their
take care of their educational and other needs. Yetfriends and relatives, give charity to the weak and
there is no guarantee that a child shall pay anythingpoor, fight for the righteousness, remain faithful to their
back and take care of you in your golden days. Worstspouse without any contract.
still, he or she may claim a good portion of your wealthWhat do such people gain in return of their good
as their legitimate right.deeds?
Why then one must have a child at all?The answer to all questions seems to be "love" which
A World without Childrenis the only compensation of the good deeds that a
In fact, many people, particularly in Europe, Japan andman does in his life. The reverse is also equally true as
Russia seem to have already realized the folly ofthe only sure punishment of doing evil deed is
having children and their population is on decline over"withdrawal of love" from the life of man. Such a man
many years. The decline of population and themay be able to amass tremendous wealth and power
increase of aging population are gradually makingin this world, yet he fails to get love even after
these countries older and weaker.spending all the material possessions.
Many countries are already alarmed by the decline ofThus what could not be done by spending all the
population and they have already started offeringwealth of the world can be done by the lure of love
incentives for increasing population as most men havewhich seems to have been given "free" through an
refused to pay up like Tom Cruise. For example,unwritten contract of God with humanity. God seems
Russia is offering financial incentives and subsidies toto say,
encourage women to have children. Australia currently"You follow my path and I shall fill your life with love."
offers a $5,000 bonus for every baby plus additionalAnd most people find love more valuable than anything
fortnightly payments, a free immunization scheme andelse in this world.
recently proposed to pay all child care costs forLove is Life
women who want to work. Many European countries,The power of love is so overpowering that a man
including France, Italy and Poland, have offered somefollows the command of love without even knowing it.
combination of bonuses and monthly payments toHe has understood from his heart that only love can
families.guide a man in the right direction as love alone is the
Yet it seems that these incentives are not goodpath of God. However, if a person losses the path of
enough and the people are not wiling to produce childGod, he loses love even if he gets everything of this
for such a peltry incentive and the population of theseworld. The desire of love, however, again brings him
countries continue declining..back on the right path.
What may come next is severe punishment for