Not Buying Into Gossip

THERE'S no shortage of opinion within this cosmosconcerns us.
we call humanity, is there? And before we know itAnd it's only when we've let those words escape that
we're roped into delivering our "opinion," hatched in awe often realise (a micro-second too late) we've
split-second, pitted for or against some poor innocenttransgressed the absent--if we're even aware.
often-times. Funny, do we care? It's assumed we do.Not buying into things that are really no concern of us
No one asks half the time.is a wisdom activity based in the truth that what goes
In an often disparate and postmodern world we can,around comes right back around at us, eventually. Of
however, be oh so easily trapped in proffering ourcourse, we can't see this at the time, but our instincts
opinion. For the many who think it's their God-givenand conscience know. This law of truth will be the
right, we really do have cause to think again.death of us (relationally) if we push it too far.
We know it backfires, so why do we do it?The principle of reversal says to us that what we sow
Instead...we shall reap; it's seriously funny how consistently this
Beckon a little common sense and season it with aworks. Whether we're genuinely interested in other
spiritual calm. Whack it in the oven to cure and outpeople and what they think of us or not, there's very
comes a baked sense of fundamental peace ready tolittle more to be compelled by than saving our own
go the journey--at least until we're out of that situation.hide. That's the most basic of motives, surely.
It's a treasure to see the uncommitted look andAs with all our activities of building and exercising virtue,
language of the body, as issues bound our way arewe must apply the two golden strategies:
deflected back upon their perpetrator.It's about
Gossip is never becoming. Staying square in the1) awareness and
middle--not taking a side--that's our best position. As2) courageous, morally-responsible action.
neither part of the problem or solution we sidestep thatBecome aware of the trickery of buying into fallacy
curve ball, the hospital handpass. Even within the "safe"and then we have the opportunity to vest courage in
confines of our homes it's not safe to gossip; not thatacting by not taking part.
the walls have ears or anything, it's the habit that mostBuyer beware. Don't buy in the first place. It's a rip-off.